The First Ladies
by Marie Benedict
Contents
Chapter 14
Overview
Eleanor meets Mary McLeod Bethune for tea and confronts the Mayflower Hotel’s de facto segregation to ensure service. Over tea, Bethune describes her limited authority on Hoover’s commission and shares a white women’s anti-lynching effort asserting silence equals guilt. Eleanor embraces speaking out, symbolically crossing racial taboos.
Summary
On November 23, 1930, Eleanor Roosevelt waits at the Mayflower Hotel to greet Mary McLeod Bethune personally. A young doorman warns that the Palm Court does not seat Black guests. Eleanor confronts the manager, invokes her public standing, and secures a table, though they are placed in the back amid stares.
Settling in, Eleanor starts to apologize, but Mary declines and prefers to focus on their conversation. They discuss Eleanor’s frustrations with the limiting expectations of a governor’s wife and her desire for meaningful work, contrasting with endless social obligations.
Mary shifts to her appointment to President Hoover’s child-welfare commission, noting she was promised influence but holds no real power. She observes that progress requires putting true change-makers in place, highlighting both women’s constrained roles.
Mary then raises lynching. She describes a convening led by Jessie Daniel Ames of white women urging an end to lynching and reports that lynchings remain widespread in both South and North. Crucially, the group concludes that silence surrounding these crimes enables them—silence is tantamount to guilt.
Moved, Eleanor admits she does not know where to begin but does not want to remain silent. She reaches for Mary’s hand, defying racial taboos. Mary responds that Eleanor has already begun, signaling Eleanor’s shift toward open anti-lynching advocacy.
Who Appears
- Eleanor RooseveltHosts Mary at the Mayflower, forces past segregation, reveals frustration with ceremonial duties, and resolves to oppose lynching.
- Mary McLeod BethuneArrives for tea, faces discrimination calmly, critiques her powerless commission role, and frames silence on lynching as guilt.
- Hotel managerInitially resistant but, after Eleanor’s insistence, escorts them to the Palm Court and seats them in the back.
- Young doormanWarns Eleanor that Black guests are barred from the Palm Court, prompting her confrontation with management.
- EarlEleanor’s attendant; offers to intervene with the manager and watches over the meeting discreetly.