Chapter 29

Contains spoilers

Overview

Wilder recounts several thoughtful dates he planned for Scottie to build trust and joy: a six-week cooking class and a surprise baseball game kiss-cam moment. He checks in with Sanders about their progress, explaining how he asks Scottie reflective questions about her past marriage to avoid repeating harms and to make her feel valued. The chapter ends with a shocking reveal: Sanders admits he has no formal counseling certification and learned matchmaking from life experience and a notorious family legacy.

Summary

Wilder waits for Scottie outside her building after a weekend of attentive texts and small gestures, consciously resisting overstepping (like buying her an AC) to respect her boundaries. When Scottie arrives, they exchange affectionate banter and hugs, and Wilder leads her to a surprise six-week cooking class he already enrolled them in, which delights Scottie. During the class, they work in sync on a cheese sauce, joke with each other, and share light intimacy, underscoring their growing comfort and playfulness.

After class, Scottie invites Wilder in, but he declines to keep their measured pace. He then asks what she wishes she had voiced to her ex, Matt; Scottie says she wanted more affection and to be treated like a wife, not a roommate. Wilder responds with reassurance and a passionate kiss at her door, signaling his intention to be attentive and affectionate.

On another date, Wilder brings Scottie to a baseball game in a private suite. He has prearranged for them to appear on the kiss cam and encourages her to drink and wait; when they appear on the jumbotron, he kisses her exuberantly as the crowd cheers. He reveals he planned the entire moment and shows her a photo capture, framing it as checking items off their shared bucket list and adding more together.

Later, Wilder meets Sanders to debrief. He thanks Sanders for helping secure the suite and reports that the night fostered closeness as they cuddled through the game. He explains a practice he adopted: after dates, he asks Scottie questions about what Matt did or did not do, to avoid repeating neglect and to make her feel significant, given the damage from a mentally absent marriage. He shares Scottie’s latest answer—that she wished for more sexual adventurousness—and states he is ready to deepen physical intimacy after several weeks of steady dating and restraint.

The conversation shifts when Wilder, having researched Sanders’s background, asks about Camp Haven’s past. Sanders confirms his grandparents owned it as a sports camp, it passed to his mother, Whitney Martin, who infamously matched criminal couples in the 1970s. Wilder presses on Sanders’s qualifications, and Sanders bluntly admits he has no formal counseling certification, learned de-escalation and matchmaking informally in college (where he met Ellison), and operates based on life experience and fine-print disclosures. Wilder is stunned by the revelation as Sanders playfully ends the conversation.

Who Appears

  • Wilder
    narrator; plans and executes dates (cooking class enrollment, baseball kiss-cam), asks reflective questions about Matt, affirms readiness for deeper intimacy, confronts Sanders about credentials.
  • Scottie Price
    love interest; enjoys the cooking class, participates in the kiss-cam moment, admits she wanted more affection and adventurous intimacy in her past marriage.
  • Sanders Martin
    marriage camp counselor; advises Wilder, helps with the baseball suite, reveals he has no formal counseling certification and a family legacy tied to matchmaking.
  • Whitney Martin
    Sanders’s mother; legendary 1970s matchmaker associated with Camp Haven and notorious couples; discussed, not present.
  • Ellison
    Sanders’s wife and Scottie’s CEO; mentioned as Sanders’s college connection; discussed, not present.
  • Matt
    Scottie’s ex-husband; discussed as emotionally absent and unaffectionate, shaping Scottie’s needs; discussed, not present.
  • Miss Mary
    cooking instructor; oversees the class where Scottie and Wilder excel; new.
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