We All Live Here — Jojo Moyes

Contains spoilers

Overview

We All Live Here follows Lila Kennedy, a mid-forties writer and mother whose life implodes when her husband Dan leaves for another woman just as her mother dies. Holding together a crumbling house, two daughters, and her faltering career, Lila navigates school‑gate politics, money fears, and the ache of starting over. Her quiet anchor is Bill, the stepfather who raised her, until the sudden reappearance of Gene—Lila’s charming, unreliable biological father—reopens old wounds and redraws family lines.

As Lila tries to write her way into solvency, she’s pulled between new connections, complicated desire, and the fierce work of caregiving. Around her, a vivid cast—sharp‑eyed teen Celie, exuberant Violet, steadfast Bill, attentive gardener Jensen, and glittering yet evasive architect Gabriel—illuminates what it means to belong. Mishaps, school plays, and small mercies accrue into a story about resilience, chosen family, and the courage to revise a life.

Tender, funny, and clear‑eyed, the novel explores modern love, co‑parenting, and forgiveness without easy answers, charting how a household in pieces becomes a home again.

Summary

Lila Kennedy begins in free fall. Her marriage to Dan has collapsed amid an affair with playground mother Marja, and her mother Francesca has recently died. In a house sprung with leaks, bills, and a barking dog, she clings to small routines—medication, late‑night sleepcasts, and walks on the Heath—to keep despair at bay. A humiliating school pick‑up confirms Marja is pregnant. Lila is pressed into costuming the school’s Peter Pan and spits out lies to her agent Anoushka about a promised book on happy singlehood that she hasn’t written.

At home, Bill—the gentle stepfather who raised her—cooks and steadies the girls, Celie and Violet. Dan phones to announce Marja is eighteen weeks along, suggesting Lila tell the girls; instead, Celie overhears and breaks down, scrolling the Instagram post that exposes the charade. Bill consoles Lila with blunt warmth. The next days lay bare Lila’s frayed defenses: a misread stranger in the garden (a landscaper Jensen) triggers an overreaction, and lunch with her candid friend Eleanor highlights Lila’s sharpened edges.

Parenting strains mount. The school calls: Celie has been forging dental notes and smoking weed. Lila’s attempt at calm confrontation collapses under Bill’s well‑meaning interruptions, and Celie storms off. Money tightens as Dan declares he’ll reduce support. In the midst, a suitcase appears: Gene—the long‑absent, TV‑footnote actor who is Lila’s biological father—has arrived and is promptly bitten by the family dog. Gene charms Violet, needles Bill, and maneuvers a place on the sofa while old grievances flare (even Bill’s nude portrait of Francesca becomes a battlefield). Lila allows Gene a night; one becomes more nights, then a stealth camp in the shed that ends with a sheepish rescue.

Anoushka dangles a lucrative follow‑up if Lila can deliver confessional, midlife‑sexy chapters fast. Spurred, Lila pours out raw pages about the breakup—and, searching for the ‘sexytimes’ sample she hasn’t lived, fumbles through fictional drafts until she chooses life over invention. She reaches tentatively toward connection: a shy, charged rapport with school dad Gabriel, and a grounded, surprising ease with Jensen. Household chaos crescendos—piano deliveries, jackhammers, Gene’s TV reruns—until a fragile truce forms. Gene bonds with Celie on a nocturnal Soho wander that ends in washable “tattoo” mischief and, crucially, Celie’s first laugh in weeks.

Momentum builds. Lila lands a six‑figure offer on a candid chapter about a joyful, low‑pressure night with “J,” drawn from a tender, consent‑careful encounter with Jensen in Bill’s garden studio. But the morning after, Bill and Gene unite to scold Lila’s overnight absence, alliances shift, and the house resumes its wary choreography. A brief peace follows: Gene tidies, Bill softens, and they even fix the cursed toilet together. Celie regains footing at school with an “Invisible Shield” of confidence and discovers a gift for animation fostered by kind classmate Martin.

The balance teeters. Jensen discovers an early draft in which Lila mined their intimacy for material; feeling exploited, he walks out. Reeling, Lila clears the attic with Bill and unearths a letter implying Francesca slept with Gene during a secret Dublin trip. Bill is shattered and retreats to his bungalow; Lila ejects Gene in fury. Alone with the girls, Lila gravitates back to Gabriel, a widower who kisses her palm, draws her into sex in his pristine flat, then asks her not to stay the night. Soon Lila learns he has been breadcrumbing multiple women: she tells fellow mother Jessie the truth and publicly confronts Gabriel, ending the fantasy.

Crisis strikes as a storm fells a tree and Bill suffers a heart attack. Lila calls the one person she can trust under pressure: Jensen. He drives her to the hospital, clears the fallen tree while she’s gone, and sits quietly with her when she returns. Lila cancels the sexy memoir with Anoushka’s blessing, sells her vintage Mercedes for cash, and weeps through a restorative massage. When Gene turns up at the ward, Lila sends him away to protect Bill’s fragile recovery. Penelope—Bill’s tender new companion—organizes medications and discharge with serene competence.

The school play becomes a crucible. At the Peter Pan performance, Gene appears intent on “telling Bill the truth.” To prevent a scene, Jensen relays Gene’s message by phone: Gene says he and Francesca did not sleep together; they partied, then parted. Bill, who had assumed otherwise, feels foolish but relieved. The curtain rises on a reimagined Peter Pan in Gene’s old sci‑fi costumes; when young Hugo freezes on stage, Celie stands to cheer, Lila joins, and the audience carries him through—an exhale of collective grace. Backstage, Lila confronts Gene for lying to spare Bill. He admits it and reveals he has quietly been helping at rehearsals and visiting the girls to steady them. Lila and Gene reconcile; he’ll do stateside fan conventions for cash but return.

In the lobby, Jessie douses Gabriel with wine, then invites Lila for a drink. Homeward in Jensen’s truck, with the girls singing, Lila feels a new peace. Jensen unveils a weathered bench to replace Bill’s, and on it Lila releases the last of Dan—acknowledging how unkindness and neglect predated the affair—and commits openly to Jensen. He meets vulnerability with humor and steadiness.

A postscript stitches the household into a looser, stronger weave. Gene thrives at conventions, splits his earnings with Lila, and signs on to help with the next school play. Bill moves in with Penelope, hosting weekly dinners that include Gene in a droll détente. Lila ghosts a scandal‑magnet actress for steady pay. Jensen works away briefly; they reunite with deeper ease. Francesca’s portrait returns to the living room—now modestly underpainted by an anonymous household artist. And when Dan and Marja’s fragile premature son finally comes home, Lila leads her daughters across the street with gifts, choosing kindness, continuity, and the complicated belonging they’ve built.

Characters

  • Lila Kennedy
    A midlife writer and mother of Celie and Violet; reeling from divorce and grief, she rebuilds home, work, and love while redefining family.
  • Bill McKenzie
    Lila’s stepfather and steady anchor; grieving Francesca, he clashes with Gene, survives a heart attack, and finds late-life love with Penelope.
  • Gene
    Lila’s charming, unreliable biological father and faded TV actor; disrupts, then helps, ultimately reweaving himself into the family.
  • Celie
    Lila’s teenage daughter; sharp, wounded, and creative, she faces bullying, finds animation, and forms a tentative bond with Gene.
  • Violet
    Lila’s younger daughter; frank and funny, she narrates the school play and becomes a bright, stabilizing spark in the household.
  • Jensen Phillips
    A thoughtful gardener with a past breakdown; becomes Lila’s confidant and partner, offering steadiness, consent, and quiet care.
  • Gabriel Mallory
    An award‑winning architect and widower; flirts with Lila while dating others, embodying the lure and harm of breadcrumbing.
  • Dan
    Lila’s ex‑husband; expects a new baby with Marja, reduces support, and later shows flashes of decency amid shared parenting.
  • Marja
    Dan’s partner; her difficult pregnancy and new baby force painful adjustments across the blended families.
  • Eleanor
    Lila’s candid best friend; offers bracing advice, humor, and pragmatic support through crises.
  • Penelope Stockbridge
    Bill’s gentle, eccentric piano teacher; becomes his partner and a calm, practical presence in the family.
  • Jessie
    A fellow single mother; unknowingly shares Gabriel, then chooses solidarity with Lila and new friendship.
  • Martin O’Malley
    Celie’s quiet schoolmate; a talented animator who encourages Celie’s work and offers kind, steady friendship.
  • Mrs. Tugendhat
    The school’s enthusiastic teacher‑organizer; galvanizes the play and happily recruits Lila and Gene.
  • Anoushka Mellors
    Lila’s agent; pushes for a hot-market memoir, then backs Lila’s choice to cancel and steers her to ghostwriting.

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