Alex, the character in the chapter, is bisexual, which raises some questions and considerations for the narrator who is dating another white man after experiencing heartbreak.
The narrator is concerned about the implications of dating a bisexual man, such as the possibility of having to compete with both men and women for his attention.
They search online forums for opinions on dating bisexual men and receive mixed responses, highlighting the importance of monogamy over sexual orientation.
The narrator calls their friend Shu, who is a lesbian, asking why she isn't bisexual and discussing the perceived benefits of being a woman.
The narrator prepares for a date with Alex, opting for a simple outfit, and feels nervous but excited to meet him.
Alex and the narrator meet at a Scandinavian-style coffee shop, and Alex impresses the narrator by remembering their preference for brownies.
The conversation flows easily between Alex and the narrator, with Alex tactfully addressing the topic of his bisexuality and the stigmas he faces in dating.
Alex explains the challenges of being bisexual and the misconceptions others often have, such as the idea of "bi-erasure."
The narrator expresses empathy for the difficult experiences both may have in the world of online dating due to being a bisexual man and a Black woman respectively.
After confirming that his bisexuality isn't a problem for her, they share a pleasant kiss before parting ways.
The chapter ends with the narrator feeling positive about the date, despite the initial hesitations about Alex's sexuality and their own non-existent barbecue plans.